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Tuesday, November 30, 2010

The Moroccan Odyssey Part One

Our arrival into the new Menara Airport in Marrakech was greeted by an inability to obtain Moroccan Dirham as all the ATM’s were empty on Sunday, and also they would not exchange Australian currency. None-the-less our spirits were raised when we were greeted by our pre-booked smiling taxi driver who would take us to the laid back sea side town of Essaouira, a distance of 175 km for 750 Dirham ( 1 AUS $= 7.5 DH) for a gentler introduction to Morocco.

The taxi ride afforded us with an enchanting panorama of terracotta buildings that punctuated the arid landscape with vast open and deep azure skies. The scenery was truly beautiful. This would be a mantra that would be often repeated on our travels here. An inauspicious lunch interspersed the journey.

Essaouira was everything that we had imagined it to be and more. A delightful array of exotic fortified walls in the UNSECO world heritage listed medina, expansive water views, fishing boats, seagulls, the gentle taros or breeze, friendly Moroccans like our concierge Abdul and his wife Saida and strangers who would say “Welcome, welcome to our country” and cats and more cats, (we are all convinced George is Moroccan). Our two nights stay at the Riad des la Mer, for £65 per night for the whole of the first floor, would pass quickly.

It was here at a restaurant that a young waiter who was looking for a wife proudly announced that Katie had ‘desert eyes’ and that she sounded like Norah Jones. (A pick up line Moroccan style!) It was also here on the way to the outdoor fish grills where we had lunch (choose your seafood and they cook it in front of you) that Katie was approached by a man who she thought said; “Do you have some cash?” to which she replied, “No thanks, I have no small cash”. As it transpired what he really said was; “Do you want some hash?” We had a bit of a giggle at Katie’s expense.

After a bout of clothes shopping in the souks and an altercation with the luggage man, we somewhat reluctantly left Essaouira as we had a date with Marrakech.  In some ways this altercation was a portent of things to come and some things that passed.

On our taxi ride back to Marrakech I noticed what was to be a common occurrence on Moroccan roads. “Police check points” every 30 minutes or so along the road. At these ‘check points’ you would often find cars emptied and searched by the Police. Unsurprisingly our taxi driver, who was good friends with all of them, was always waved through. I am sure a little Machiavellian donation always helps the cause. 
In a Lonely Plant TV documentary on Marrakech, shortly before we left, the reporter said; “Marrakech if you are not careful, I will not go out with you.”  In part, this summed up Katie’s and my experience of Marrakech.

Katie’s assessment; “Marrakech is what it is” turned out to be rather prophetic. The UNSECO world heritage listed square, Djemaa El- Fna lived up to its billing, with a vibe and a cast of thousands including snake charmers, dancing monkeys, walking owls, freshly squeezed orange juice and a plethora of food stalls. Yet on the surface Marrakech did appear suffocating. People seemingly only interested in conversation if you bought something, exploiting your trust, pushy, rude, demanding, incessant, beggars being wheeled into restaurants where you were sitting asking for money and people literally chasing you for money if you took a photo; snake charmers particularly.

At one stage unannounced a young male, with a cheesy grin, came up to Nicole and put his arm around her and proceeded to walk her through the medina. To my disdain, I removed the offending arm and politely told him to “&^!@##!”. Much to Nicole’s annoyance who said; “Dad I can look after myself thank you”.  A point well made by Nicole and taken on board by her father.

Cries of “Hello baby”, “Hello flowers” and “I give you a thousand camels” from virulent young stags followed the girls throughout the medina. At one stage, when Katie and I were walking together one of them yelled out somewhat luridly to me; “Oh you are a lucky guy.”

I was beginning to think that Marrakech was not so much an awkward first date but rather a tempestuous relationship that was terminal.  I was struggling to get beneath this layer to uncover another of her faces.

This view was coloured by the fact that, by Moroccan standards, we were badly ripped off when we had lunch on the way from the airport despite being promised by our smiling taxi driver that the food at this cafe was much cheaper and better than at the airport. Also ironically as we were hassled on the way to the fish grill by a restaurateur who advised not to go there as they hassle you. While the food was good it was much more than we should have paid. You see in some places there are no menus or prices and while I am quite adept at bargaining for clothes etc bargaining for such a basic commodity as food (not required in Nepal) was something foreign to me.  

And lastly the departure from Essaouira left a bad taste in my mouth where we had our luggage transported on something akin to a wheelbarrow for 100 m to our taxi. I gave the person a tip of a couple Dirhams which he literally threw back at my face, not enough you see.  In hindsight it was a misunderstanding and my lack of understanding of North African culture. At the time it was incandescent rage and layering my animosity somewhat unfairly toward the Moroccan people. Travel is such a good teacher.

Our Hotel, the Jnane Mogador, in the heart of the medina for two nights was fantastic (except for one morning of cold showers). The tagines and breakfast were simply divine as was the hammam experience at the hotel for Anne and Katie. 45 minutes of exfoliating, covered in black soap and clay splashed with lots of hot water lying butt naked (apart from the undies) on a heated floor. All this pleasure for 125 Dirham or $16.

Our one full day here was spent walking through the medina, listening to the muezzin call to prayer five times a day at the Koutoubia Mosque, a visit to the Mellah (Jewish markets, which is great for spices) and a walk through the 16th century ruin; Badi Palace.

After renegotiating our five day Sahara experience with another company (Mami Tour)supplied by the hotel, some $300 cheaper than what I obtained through research on the net (always cheaper in country), we were to leave Marrakech at 7.30 the following morning.

But before doing so, with the help of my better half, I was determined to put on a new disposition towards the country and its people.

Day One of our Sahara experience was bursting at the senses. We would eventually arrive at our first nights stay at Dades Gorge at 7.00 p.m. With our driver Hassan who spoke five languages: Arabic; Berber; French; Spanish and English we left in our Toyota Land cruiser for the Atlas Mountains. After an hour the road snaked its way up to Tizi N’Tichka at an altitude of 2,400 m. This pass connects Marrakech with the pre-Sahara oasis and it was along this way that Nicole christened the road more than once as we had to regularly stop for her due to a mixture of car sickness, flu, and tummy pains. Colie was still feeling lousy.

Next stop was the town of Telout and a visit to the Giaoui Kasbah. A beautiful old Kasbah and an enjoyable fossick through its ruins. The next two hours of travel through the Telout valley to Ait Benhaddou was majestic and unforgettable.  At Ait Benhaddou, where we had lunch, it was easy to see how the red mud brick Kasbah formed the back drop for films like Lawrence of Arabia, Jesus of Nazareth, Jewel of the Nile and Gladiator. I was really beginning to feel like I was in another continent.

Onto Ouarzazate, pronounced war-zazat, where we visited the Kasbah Taourirtt. By now the afternoon sun was in all its glory and casting a beautiful hue from its radiant light. The sky was a deeper and richer blue to the one at home.  Another two and half hours driving through Skoura, Kelaa M’gouna (known for its pink roses) and Boumalne Du Dades we arrived in the dark at Hotel Restaurant la Vallee. It had been a long day and we were very tired and after a quick dinner and Berber hospitality we were off to bed for a very respectable 9.00am breakfast and 10.00 am departure for Todra Gorge and the desert the following day.

We awoke to views of the majestic Dades Gorge, an extraordinary red rock formation, from our hotel window. After some obligatory photos of the Gorge and amazing vistas of the meandering road which lazily climbed steeply off the valley floor we were gone.

Day Two saw us drive through the valley and the town of Tinehir and after two hours we bore witness to the gorgeous, gurgling Todra Gorge. The Lonely Planet Moroccan guide book describes approaching the Gorge as”thrilling and somehow urgent, as though the doors of heaven were about to close before you.”  This was such an apt description. Breathtakingly beautiful.

With the 4WD we travelled deeper into the gorge and had mint tea at the fantastic Auberge Le Festival with cave guest rooms. Sitting on the terrace we were surrounded by scenery which was something like out of a Star Wars film, barren but beautiful. During the day, our thoughtful but reserved driver, asked Colie’s name. Somewhere lost in translation Colie became known as Au lait or Olay.

Travelling through Efroud we came across a desert sand storm, a Moroccan willy willy, and the sun had an eerie translucent glow reminiscent to a raging bushfire in the Australian outback. From here onto Rissani and then around 5.00 pm we finally arrived at our Auberge for the next three nights on the outskirts of the village of Mezzouga. We were greeted by the mad and eccentric twenty something Berber, Hassan, who was the Auberge’s customer liaison. He immediately christened us with Berber names; Anne was now to be called ‘Fatima’, Katie was to be known as ‘Aisha’, Nicole as ‘Hidiysha’ and yours truly as ‘Ali Baba’. Hassan insisted that we adhere to these names till the end of our stay. That night at dinner I had my best tagine in Morocco.

After dinner Hassan invited us to a night of Berber music and dancing.  What followed was an experience Katie and I would not forget for a while.

We all went back to Katie and Nicole’s room, which was set apart from the main buildings, as Colie was feeling decidedly unwell. Anne stayed with her while Katie and I fumbled our way through the darkness towards the Auberge’s restaurant.  As we approached we heard a muted cry saying; “Kaaam... Kaaam” and saw a faint light which turned out to be Hassan’s mobile phone.  We could then make out his shadowy figure outside the restaurant where he enquired; “Where is Fatima?” He then proceeded to lead Katie and me into the pitch blackness of the Sahara desert to the sounds of a drum playing in the distance. 

Both of us were becoming increasingly bemused as we went further and further into the desert with a person we hardly knew. The sounds of the drum faded and after repeatedly asking him where we were going with little or no response we approached a dense thicket of what looked like bush. A little uneasy we wanted to turn back. He insisted that we go on further. Our imagination, and his Jack Nicholson type Shining snigger, got the better of us which was fuelled by earlier discussions of Bradley Murdoch and Joanna Lees along part of a long and lonely road from Tinehir. We both felt a little vulnerable.

Abruptly, we turned back and headed for the Auberge stumbling in the desert closely followed by the hovering Hassan. When we arrived back he said “No problem, we stay here.”   What followed was bizarre and somewhat comical.  In between Hassan playing the Tum Tum, drums, and singing traditional Berber songs, in casual conversation we asked him about how many in his family to which her replied; “Caravan”. When asked about whether the camels had names he bleated out “Jimmy Hendrix.” Do people get lost in the desert? “Berber GPS” was his response. When Anne appeared he chanted to the beat of the drum; “Fatima dance, Fatima dance, Fatima dance” much like the chanting in William Golding’s film Lord of the Flies. The guy was mad as a meat axe. He very much reminded me of the Russian cosmonaut in the film Armageddon.

He kept repeating throughout the night in his now infamous chortle; “My English is slipping”, “My English is crazy” “No problem Ali Baba” and “Where is Fatima?” Around 10.30 we escaped to the refuge of our room and settled in for a long sleep.

Day Three was a rest day at the Auberge till mid afternoon. Refreshingly, no 4W driving today. After a late breakfast we did nothing, except for reading, writing blogs, resting and eating. The electricity went off for the morning and the showers were intermittently cold. This was a faint echo of Nepal, deep in the Sahara, less than 50 km from the Algerian border. Later in the afternoon when the winds died down we would go on our camel trek and bivouac.

We boarded our ships in the desert just after four still with a hard wind that blew. As we rode further and further into the Sahara my sand blown face was filled with exhilaration. It was one of those junctures in time where you had to pinch yourself. The Father of Mythology, Joseph Campbell, called them moments of bliss. Katie appropriately led us onwards with our camel guide who walked the small caravan of four. After 90 minutes we dismounted and were asked to walk the final 20 minutes in fading light to our camp.
Here we were greeted by a United Nations of tourists: Poles; Americans; English; Italian; French; Scandinavians- about 25 in all. Amidst the swapping of camel stories, histories and travel sojourns we ate a traditional Berber meal and were treated to traditional music and ‘camel dancing’ which was illustrated deftly by Colie. We struck a particularly good relationship with some New York and Buffalo girls who were studying in Italy and having a brief holiday in Morocco. It was refreshing to meet such self effacing and unpretentious Americans. Off to bed around 9.00 p.m. in our own Berber tent we managed some intermittent sleep with the sand in our teeth, hair, eyeballs and other cavities and surrounded by the noisy Scandinavian and French chatter of “ooh, more hash cookies please...”

Night left us quickly as we were awoken at 5.30 to the drum beat of “welcome, welcome” for a very early morning breakfast. Some chose to leave early courtesy of camels, while others like Katie and I chose to climb the dunes to wait and witness the sunrise. There was a stillness here that reminded me of Michael Palin’s reflections in the desert of how the three great monotheistic religions found God here. It is easy to see why amidst such endless and eternal beauty.  Katie and I especially, had developed an insatiable appetite for the Moroccan landscape.

There are special moments, sacred moments that embolden a father daughter relationship. As a father, sitting on a sea wall, watching a sunrise or putting your arm around your daughter in a souk builds an indelible legacy, especially as no two experiences are ever the same. It is one of the real blessings of travel.
Day Four had dawned and the Berbers attempted to cajole us into remaining in the desert for the day, an invitation we politely declined. Soon after we were 4W driving along the dunes, (with Colie on the roof!) somewhat mimicking the rollercoaster rides in my youth, back to our Auberge.

The metaphor of the rising sun to greet yet another Moroccan day reflected my developing symbiotic relationship with the land and its people. I had begun to scratch the surface and venture a little deeper into the culture.
It was on the 36th day into my trip that the Sahara claimed me and my new $600 camera. I succumbed to the tummy bug and Dr. Colie prescribed me three gastro stop tablets, a stematil, and a good lie down.  Meanwhile, the ‘good doctor’, who was thankfully decidedly better, and ‘the rest of the girls’ visited the nearby town of Rissani, for the Sunday souks, or markets and the internet cafe to reconnect to the outside world. (As it turned out the town folk where rather intimidating, and the girls were the only Westerners there so they stayed only an hour in the cyber cafe).My camera succumbed to the sands of the Sahara. I hope they both get well soon.

In the afternoon I watched on my laptop the beautifully crafted Sean Penn film Into the Wild, based on the true story of Chris McCandliss, a 23 year old, who rejected the trappings of Modernity as he escaped from a tormented family life and sought solace in nature and finally in the Alaskan wilderness. Chris’ reflections in the final chapter of the film, The getting of Wisdom; “The core of man’s (sic) spirit comes from new experiences” resonate with me on my travels. The rest of the family watched a slide show of Colie’s photos, something of a retrospective of our time in Bangkok, Madrid and Morocco.

For the late afternoon we all chilled on the terrace and watched the evening arrive in glorious desert surroundings.

Dinner, than early bed as we are off tomorrow at 8.00 a.m. for our seven to eight hour drive to the Imperial city of Fez.

Until next time                     
Good tidings and God’s blessings
Janika                                                                                                             

Monday, November 22, 2010

A little magic in Madrid

Madrid greeted us with a clear but dark morning at 5 degrees, a little on the chilly side. Tired, disorientated and dizzy we found our way to our hotel, Vienna Suites, with a pre booked mini bus (Aero City- 26 Euro; Not bad for 4 people).
The rest of the day consisted of a walk around the nearby Palace, Cathedral, Plaza De Espana and a scrumptious Spanish lunch at the Plaza de Mayor. We fumbled along for the rest of the day, jet lagged, interspersed with rests at the hotel. Dinner was some sausages cooked by Anne and her assistant, yours truly, in our room and off to bed by 7.00 p.m. Us Muskovits’ are such a sociable lot!
Day Two feeling a little better, and unbeknown to me, we were off shopping (with a modicum of sightseeing thrown in too). Katie was in her element with a spring in her step. At one stage Katie and I were together in a rather chic store looking for a winter coat where I, trying to sound like a fashionista, enthusiastically exclaimed; “No Katie, that’s a jumper!” to which she dismissively replied; “If mum dies, we’re screwed”.  In the end, both Katie and Colie picked up 70-100% pure woollen winter coats for under $130 each. (Clothing is so much cheaper in Spain).
The Del Prado museum was such a cultural highlight. We can thank King Philip IV of Spain for the legacy of a wonderful Rueben’s collection.  Colie was an astute navigator and by the afternoon we had mastered the Madrid underground (1 euro per person to any location with trains arriving every 1 to 5 minutes) and it proved a real antithesis to Sydney’s archaic transport system. 
Sadly the football gods conspired against me. Although there was a game at the Bernabou tomorrow I would only be able to watch it on TV.
Between the girls Katie, like her Dad, had assumed the mantle of photographer in residence. When Colie was quizzed why she was not taking photos, her incisive response was; “Life is one big photo”.
Day Three saw us feasting on; you guessed it, more shopping. Apart from a visit to the National Museum which saw us reacquainted with Salvador Dali and Pablo Picasso’s famous painting depicting the Spanish civil war; Guernica.  A late lunch at 1.30 pm, early by Spanish standards, in the Plaza of Porte de Sol was a wonderful experience as was the tapas and cocktails later at the Vienna Cafe near our hotel. The waitress gave a hearty laugh when she brought me my cocktail; Sex on the Beach
That night Anne and I visited the illuminated Temple of Debod (An Egyptian monument brought over piece by piece in the late sixties), situated high on a hill in a Park, with great views of the Palace. I took lots of photos while amorous Spanish couples publically professed their love to the world. 
And what of the news of world as we travelled (courtesy BBC and CNN).
§                                                    The Pope allows contraception under extenuating HIV AIDS circumstances
§                                                    New Zealand miners trapped underground with the rescue currently thwarted    due to poisonous gases
§                                                    NATO summit
§                                                    Three arrested for the murder of a man found in a car in England
§                                                    The Brits want Prince William, recently engaged to Kate Middleton, and not Prince Charles to be their next King
§                                                    England bullish about their chances in the Ashes series against Australia beginning next week
§                                                    Quiddich being played in US Colleges minus the flying. (Some might say Life imitating Art poorly)


And my impressions of Madrid?
§                                                    Wonderful architecture
§                                                    Spontaneous street music
§                                                    A city in love with its cuisine and its cuisine in love with the city
§                                                    A living art culture
                      Long queues in the Plaza for lotterry tickets
§                                                    Proud, well dressed men and women
§                                                    Barcelona football paraphernalia worn in Madrid
§                                                    High Police presence
§                                                    Pushy people in a hurry

None-the-less all of us came to the consensus that we were pleasantly surprised by Madrid and were held captive by her charm.

Muchas Gracias Madrid.

Spain is a bookend to our inaugural two week Moroccan odyssey. Madrid now, and Barcelona after, nestled in-between our North African affair of the senses.
And what of Morocco as she expectantly awaits.
Will she be an awkward first date, or a jilted lover?
Perhaps she will be a long lost love or just a friend?
We shall see.

Until next time,
Good tiding and God’s blessings
Janika

PS As I conclude this blog, Nepal has caught up with Colie. She has come down with flu and is valiantly struggling. With a dose of antibiotics, rest, love and care hopefully the worst will pass within a couple of days.

Thursday, November 18, 2010

The feng shui of Bangkok

After a quick three hour flight from Kathmandu, passing the majestic Chomolungma , Colie and I arrived in Bangkok to stifling humidity and the prospect of waiting for a taxi for an hour.

At 8.30 p.m. the circle was complete. The family had reunited.

The Songlines of the heart danced at dinner like dreaming tracks. Laughter and a tapestry of stories filled the night air. An old cliché rang true. Home is where the heart is.

The Chatrium, an international five star hotel on the banks of the Chao Phra River, a bargain for just over $100 / night, was a world away from Hotel Potala in Nepal.

Morning was filled with a sumptuous buffet breakfast followed by a ferry trip up the river. A local approached us in the street and organized a Tuk tuk to take us around the key landmarks of the city. The driver would wait for us at each landmark; all this for 40 Baht for five hours. Although near the end of the day he begged us to visit a shop so he would get a petrol voucher. We obliged.

In the course of the day we had a chat with a UN ambassador at a temple, a security guy who informed us that the royal family were to arrive at the Tibetan temple shortly after we did, a tailor who measured me up for four shirts (100 thread count Egyptian cotton); two trousers (cashmere) and two silk ties, all for around $250 (Peter would be proud of me!); the Golden Mountain; people at prayer; a patchwork of Buddhist monks in the city and a tour around other monuments.  A full day.

That night Colie and Katie caught up with a couple of the Antipodean girls who were in town for a night of eating crickets ( yes Katie ate one); buckets of vodka and orange; foot massages by sucker fish; swensen ice cream and pad thai.

The next day was more oppressive (humidity) and less frenetic. A visit to the famous Royal Palace had the girls leave early for the Hotel pool. Before they did, I think Katie was suffering a little delirium as she tried to order a Pepsi from a stupa where they were doing puja, worship amidst the Buddhist offerings of eggs and garlands of flowers.

An enduring image that remains with me of this night is all four of us curled up in one king bed watching nondescript TV. We were embracing the moment and each other. Travel: Expensive. This Moment: Priceless!

There is a feng shui about Bangkok that mirrors their hospitality. The security guard-the Royal family- told me that because of their ‘high feng shui’ Thailand has never been colonized.

Bangkok will always have a place in our family folklore. In a short space of time the country has grown on me, so much so, that I would consider returning.

Now onto the graveyard midnight Lufthansa flight to Madrid via a 90 minute transit in Frankfurt.

Fortuitously a fortune cookie three hours before my flight read:

“The longer the night lasts
The more the dreams will be.”

Spain awaits.

Until next time,
Good tidings and God’s blessings
Janika

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Doing nothing is hard work

Doing nothing is hard work

The dying embers of my visit to Nepal was spent in Pokhara recuperating from the trek; black tea; savoring the culinary curry delights from the Punjabi Vegetarian Restaurant; retail therapy; more black tea and going on a boat ride on the Tal being rowed by an 80 yr old. Stroke, stroke, stroke. No Retirement Age here!

The plane ride to Kathmandu was 25 minutes, only an hour late (good by Nepali standards). As it was our last night in Nepal I shouted Colie an up market hotel, Kathmandu Resort Hotel at $35 for a twin room. It was the first time she had lay on an inner spring mattress in 103 days. An evening meal at OR2K, Colie’s favorite, with our trekking buddies, Kiri and Megan and breakfast at New Orleans and a massage for me (900 Rupees) rounded off our stay in Nepal.

It was the French Novelist, Marcel Proust who said: “The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes”.

Nepal was that for me. A mosaic of contradictions, opposites, paradoxes and ironies.

Small country…high mountains
One verdant garden of tranquility in Kathmandu surrounded by a sea of chaotic, smelly, noisy choking urban jungle  
Affluent tourists drowned in souvenir honey haranguing shopkeepers struggling for any of life’s pleasures
Gentle Nepali culture entangled with pushy Nepali people “Sir just this way” One moment sir” “No Sir Please come”
Abundant water (Often)… Electricity blackouts
Beautiful scenery masquerading in abject poverty in a vista of pollution, waste and rubble
The holy and the profane, like ying and yang, holy men and holy money making, like ying and yang
Overt displays of same sex public affection. Homosexuality outlawed
 Kathmandu suffocating… Pokhara breathing
No rules, no regulations, traffic chaos and logical absurdity where there are fewer deaths when the traffic lights do not work
New infrastructure initiatives left half unfinished that mask the corruption, disorganization and a lack of will
High mortality rate, Low literacy rate and young children with English as the hope for the future
Foreign Aid: Government Waste
Same same… but different

A favourite quote of mine from the acerbic tongue of Bill Bryson is; “To my mind, the greatest reward and luxury of travel is to be able to experience everyday things as if for the first time, to be in a position in which almost nothing is so familiar it is taken for granted.”

So what have I learnt from my 21 days in Nepal?

Bistari, bistari… slowly, slowly
Ali, ali… little by little
Opportunity borne out ingenuity
A sanitized version of life can often mask a disconnection to moshka, breaking the cycle of rebirth

In the end I came to a real love of Nepal. It will always hold an affectionate place in my heart. Sharing it with Colie, teaching in the village and shedding a few of my layers of unconscious prejudice echo the words of James Michener;

“If you reject the food, ignore the customs, fear the religion and avoid the people, you might better stay at home.”

So after the first of ten countries to visit on this epic journey Colie and I are now off to the country of the King and I; the Holy Grail for the family. It has been 104 days since Anne and Katie have seen Colie. It is a long time for a mum and protective sister.

Until next time,
Good tiding and God’s blessings

Janika



Friday, November 12, 2010

Same same... but different

There is saying in Nepal, “Same, same…but different.”

Kathmandu had a nice symmetry with the novel Nicole had leant me in the village, The Kite Runner which I had just finished reading. Like Amir and Hassan who flew kites in the streets of Kabul, a mirror image was found in the streets of Kathmandu in Nepal’s holiest of festivals, Dashian. And like Sohrab who at the end of the novel found it in himself to smile for the very first time after a year when he flew a kite with Amir in America, I too had learnt to take time to savor the richness amidst the squalor in these streets. “Same, same…but different.”

A visit to the ‘monkey temple’, Swayambhunath was a nice entrĂ©e into Nepali theology. This was followed by a visit to the most important temple in Nepal on the riverbanks of the Bagmati, Pashupatinath temple, where I witnessed cremations and a real sense of the sacred juxtaposed with Sadhus, holy men, counting their money from their constant chants of ‘photo for money’ and chillin’ out by reading the local newspapers to while away the time.  But my favourite place was the 1920’s built, then left to ruin, then redeveloped, The Garden of Dreams. It was real oasis from the clutter of life outside its tranquil walls.

Sampling the food was another foot into the culture. OR2K, The Road House and The Pumpernickel soon became the favourite haunts to chill away an afternoon or evening. ­­­­­­­­­­­ I had almost been coaxed over the dark side by Colie and began to enjoy retail therapy. “No no too much 500 rupee. What is best price? 300?”

Nicole and I had decided to rent a car with driver to Chitwan National Park then onto to Pokhara by local/tourist bus after a day in the Park.  The journey to Chitwan took some seven hours, covering little more than 140 km. On the way around a steep bend the driver lost control and as the car slid towards the a sheer drop, Nicole and I had barely time to look at each other before the car righted itself before it continued on in the morning light. Good Karma? Good Luck? God?

In the year of my 50th birthday, in the country of Nepal I would have done the two hardest things in my life in the space of ten days. One professional and the other physical.

Chitwan will be remembered for many things for me.

The Elephant ride, breeding centre and elephants washing in the river. Canoeing down a jungle river on a lazy sunny afternoon. The Tharu dancing. The jeep ride and our humorous guide who seemed to yell tiger at every twist and turn on our jungle walk. Truth be known in the 15 years he has worked in the Park he has only sighted a tiger on six occasions. However on one of those occasions he was with a legion of French tourists when a tiger leapt out of the bushes and hunted down and killed a spotted deer right in front of them. How I wish I was on that trip!

And somewhat like the rare sightings of tigers, it was at Chitwan were I turned down an opportunity to be a Principal in a rural community near Sydney. Still waters run deep.

The bus ride from Chitwan to Pokhara was an eye opener. It took us one and a half hours to get out of the Chitwan area. The bus was more like a local bus, stopping regularly and spluttering along. Nicole assures me it wasn’t. No goats, chickens and people spilling out of windows and on rooftops in this bus.

The taxi ride from Pokhara to Nayapul, the start of our five day trek in the Annapurna ranges, was a portent of things to come. In casual conversation with the taxi driver I noticed a Toyota car up ahead to which he remarked “not like this car, as this car not safe”. 

When we arrived at Nayapul we had four eager trekkers (later to be known as the Ozzie Tiger Trekkers); Nicole, two delightful girls from Antipodeans who spent three months in the village as volunteers with Nicole, and me. Life has a habit of being an unfolding puzzle. It was only in May by good fortune we had offered to host two girls who were from Adelaide and needed a night to stay as they completed their Nepal Antipodean Orientation Camp in Sydney. They were the same two girls, Kiri and Megan who we were to share the next five days with Colie and I and whose lives would be inextricably linked to ours for a long time there after as we sweated, laughed and struggled our way to Poon Hill, Ghorepani, Ghandruk, Syauli Bazar and then back to Nayapul.

On arrival at Nayapul we were to meet our guide at 9.00 am, which had pre arranged a week earlier with a KEEP representative, us, together with the trekking agency.

Unfortunately after a few frantic phone calls at 10 o’clock we were informed that our guide was still in Kathmandu, 240 km away. They thought we would start tomorrow! Nepali time.

Nicole had to surrender her passport at the first check point at Birenthanti, a 20 mins walk, so we could stay there until our guide arrived with our trekking permits; the realization dawned on me that we would have to complete the five day trek in four.

Day One started out deceptively comfortable. But after a while there were signs that my body was not going to like this: heavy breathing, panting, heavy breathing. By the time I arrived at Hile, aptly named, the legs were full of lactic acid and the body was attempting to negotiate a peaceful end to the trek with the mind. But more was to come.

The climb between Tikkedhungga and Uleri was murderous. Two to two and half hours straight up a cliff. No respite. A 500 metre climb in a very short distance. Stairs and more stairs as I focused on the feet in front of me as my body screamed to stop as an eighty year old Nepali woman passed me. There is a lot a man finds out about himself in times like these. It was life imitating life.

More heavy breathing and panting, stopping then slowly moving step after step as I was passed by Porter after Porter. I have so much admiration for these people. Carrying loads of up to 70-80 kg up very steep terrain no man should do. Often poorly paid they are a microcosm of Nepal. A nation, apart from Mountains (tourism) and water, built on manual labour. This metaphor, particularly under the circumstances was not lost on me.

The view as we arrived on the upper outskirts of Uleri, for our first nights’ accommodation, was breath taking as was the ribbing of one of the girls who had taken quite a shine to the guide who was a good  looking 20 year old Nepali: 9.5 out of 10 actually. He became known as the Tiger who would perhaps lure the sweet damsel into his den. Or would he? This banter would go on for the rest of the trip between us four Aussies, although I am sure that the Tiger, who was such an astute animal, would at times play along. And Megan was such a good sport too!

It was here that we met “Priscilla” as we named her. A grim faced three foot doll that was neither male nor female who guarded the dining room.

Day Two was perhaps less demanding but equally challenging for me.  Uphill and another climb to Ghorepani. During the day the DJ in my head was playing the Divinyls song; ‘There is a fine line between pleasure and pain…”  The body had a long time ago wanted to turn back; but the mind was listening to the spirit who urged them both to continue. Colie was a trouper. In her stoic manner at the end of the trip she will have soldiered on for the five days with a cold and a headache. No complaints, no whining, just let’s get on with it.  It was such a proud occasion for me as a dad to do this trek with Colie. I can’t wait for Morocco’s desert experiences with Katie and the family.

Day Three began with a 4.30 rise and a trek up to Poon Hill at 4.55. A very steep incline of 300 mtres in the dark. Etched in my memory of this walk to the top, that would take almost an hour, was: a string of lights in single file that pierced the darkness; people trudging up the hill; people vomiting in bushes; people coming down the hill- too hard.

We were greeted at the top by the sleeping mountains that were soon to be awakened by the first rays of the sun. Deeply mystical and utterly transcendent. The stillness was only broken by the two hundred or so trekkers who had also gathered to pay homage to the mountain gods in their entire resplendent splendor. It had been a privilege to witness what has been taking place here from time immemorial.

We arrived back at the ‘Moonlight’ tea house at 7.30 for breakfast to begin our trek shortly after 9.00. Overall the accommodation during the trek was spartan. A basic twin room cost 200 Rupees; with a hot shower (if lucky) another 100 rupees with a high mark up on food and beverages, sometimes at least 500% from the city. Still it was very cheap by Western standards at AUS $1 = 69 Rupees. You could not haggle at different lodges as all menus were the same set by the Annapurna Conservation Foundation. Again, a case of “Same, same…but different.”

This day was an up and down day. Up Ghorepani hill to 3,200 metres and down to Tadapani and then just outside this village we pulled at stumps around 3.30 in the afternoon. Walking through the jungle provided yet another backdrop to our journey. No two days the same, No two experiences the same, except for the aching calves and bruised backs. “Same, same…but different.”

Before dinner we were met by our somewhat effusive guide who was in fine spirits and was desperate for a dance. Later we came to realize that he had his medicine, antibiotics as he called them or “white tea”. Something like Mexican vodka and lots of it! After a night of dancing and entertaining the locals and card playing; for the record Megan lost the card game SPOONS and for her punishment (or was it enjoyment?) she had to dance first with the Tiger. Kiri by all reckoning was the best at Nepali dancing and a fun night was had by all. This was a late night as we went to bed around 9.30 p.m. 

Day Four began with breakfast at 6.30 and on the way at 7.00. Trekking was somewhat easier now on the lungs, but much harder on the knees and joints as we were descending from 2,500 meters to 1000 metres back to Nayapul. By 12.00 we were making good ground and arrived for lunch at Syauli Bazar on the river. An ice bath followed and Megan and Colie went under the freezing mountain water for some R and R. Two hours was well spent recuperating and soaking up the scenery.

Two hours later we were back at Nayapul. Our journey of 15,000-20,000 steps was complete. The DJ was bouncing out the Harry Chapin song “All my life’s a circle…”  Another taxi ride of just over an hour and we were back at Pokhara. We shared a meal as we almost drifted off to sleep between the vegetable pokodas and Dahl but, but we made it! Over the five days we had witnessed some unforgettable scenery and experiences which have cemented a special place in our hearts. Poon Hill was my Everest. “Same, same…but different.”

So did I underestimate the difficulty of the trek? Yes
Was I pleased that I finished it?  Yes
Would I do it again? No
Would I have done it had I known what it was like? No

Ah the unpredictability and surprises we call life!

Two days rest in Pokhara then it is back to Kathmandu by Buddha Air. Good Karma I hope.

Until next time,
Good tidings and God’s blessings
Janika

Monday, November 1, 2010

Testing Times

My three hour trip to the village by taxi, courtesy of KEEP, the in country agent, was an insight into Nepali life; being bogged twice, having to get out of the car and walk so the car could traverse the hill, and then endure the journey as the car bounced along, on what could be described loosely as a goat track. Augmenting this was the beautiful scenery and clean air which was a nice change to Kathmandu.

The 50kg of donations from my school consisting of flash cards, posters, picture books, puzzles, pens, pencils, rulers and the like and a brand new portable DVD for each school was divided and distributed at the first school's library, which was by far the most affluent of the three schools I was to visit. Little did I know it then, but I was in culture shock! The poverty was opaque and hung heavy like the Kathmandu smog around the city which at times suffocated the senses.

At the second school I met Nicole. Three months is a long time for a doting father.The third and last school was the poorest. Yet in time it turned out to be the richest.The Principal's office resembled a war torn bunker out of Afghanistan.

I was then introduced to my family where I was to stay for the next few days. My "room" next to the stables ( for the cows of course) and clay carved kitchen/dining area gave me a good feel for village life. As I ate my meal with my right hand I was joined by the family cat for dinner; rice of course. I asked did the cat have  name. "No. He is only here to catch the rats". I bade goodnight and went to bed. Next morning  I could hear Mum around 5.30  washing down the clay walls of her kitchen, then start the fire, gather the grains and prepare lunch (dahl bat) to be served at 9.00 am. This process was to be repeated at night and each day and every day of her life.

On the second morning I asked about showers and they pointed to a tank full of water with a jug in full view of the neighbors and where all the family cleaning would take place. I decided that showering would have to wait. The village was not quite yet ready for my "beautiful body"! And as I washed my hands with the eroded Cussons Imperial soap that lay above the squat toilet I knew I was in Nepal.

My next two days were teaching the teachers. Prior to this, I had asked the other Antipodean girls for some advice: Two simple things they said: " Tell the teachers to actually come to class" and "Tell them not to hit the children".

It was the last piece of advice that stung deeply. I listened to one of the girls recall a moment in class when one of her students was repeatedly hit by the teacher for behaving badly. Here was a young Australian volunteer caught up in a cultural firestorm and clash of values.What should she do?

Notwithstanding it was privilege to hear the struggles of Nepali teachers: poor status, poorly paid, poorly trained and with a ratio of 1 teacher to 45 students. I was heartened to see that some of the women resonated with the importance of knowing your students and were at least willing to try my not so new ideas like group work!

At night in my room I would be visited by the teacher with whom I was staying and his friend who was  
the Vice President of the Management Committee ( Like a School Board) of the same school. Both were young men in their mid to late twenties, spoke good English, were well educated and highly critical of the present Government yet also highly idealistic and optimistic for the future. We would speak for hours about Philosophy, Politics, Religion, Customs and the caste system. Every Night the light would go. Blackout. Pitch black conversation. Then candlelight. This was a regular occurrence every night for at least two hours in the morning and two hours at night. No money. No Power. They also explained to me that in their village their surname 'Dulal' denoted their caste. So every one in the village had the same surname. They were a higher caste then the village below them but the first affluent school I visited, that village was of the Brahman caste. On my last night there they said they wanted to add me to Facebook! What a juxtaposition of Village life.

Embedded into my consciousness by these young men was that they saw the teaching of English, which is  compulsory language in all schools in Nepal, as the Holy Grail, the yellow brick road and the way out of poverty and oppression.

On my last day the poorest school showered the girls and me with flowers, a framed certificate and a "Token of Love" wooden ornament of Nepal in a beautiful farewell ceremony of dancing and singing that lasted a few hours. They were poor but they sure taught us lesson of what is really important in life.

I has asked, no begged, Nicole to come to Bhaktapur with me after we left the village.For the next two days she showed me around and it was only on the last day when we visited Potters square, an ornate tapestry of clay pots and figures draped against old buildings that I first saw the beauty of this ancient town. I had at last begun to breathe.

The Poverty was abject. Mangy dogs perched against a sea of rubble, dust and pollution from noisy motor bikes, homeless kids and begging. This was brought into sharp relief when Nicole and I were sitting in a restaurant facing out onto Durbar square, a beautiful vista of temples and ancient buildings. In the foreground was a hunched man with withered lower limbs being supported by a stick feebly hoping after tourist to tourist begging for money. The sad irony from where I was sitting having lunch was not lost on me. I recalled a comment made by an American teacher and his Japanese friend with whom we had breakfast one morning. On reflecting on the poverty of Nepal he said: that " Nepal is where the Bangladeshis come for holiday"

Yet there is spirit in this land and people that transcends the thick cloak of poverty and mask of sheer desperation. But it takes time to be able to see beyond one reality to see another.

Last night I had the privilege of being part of the farewell  KEEP ( The Kathmandu Environmental and Eduction Project who are the in country agent for the girls). As I sat next to one of KEEP's founders and in between the "Mr John please have some more Everest beer" I was struck by how proud, hard working, resourceful and resilient the Nepali people are and how hard KEEP is working to build a better life for rural communities. The nine girls from Australia.who volunteered for three months and who were such fine ambassadors for their country bore testimony to that.

And beyond the countless photos of truly beautiful scenery and ancient temples there is etched in my memory something much more endearing: that in the fragility of life there are always seeds that take root and bring forth life for others.

Until next time
good tidings and God's blessings

Janika