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Monday, January 10, 2011

The journey home

After 80 days on the road Anne and I are going home.

Staying in the Hotel Rose Garden {29,000 Yen for 3 nights} in a really good location in the Shinjuku district gave us a good perspective of the size and scale of Tokyo, the largest city in the world with some 12 million people.

All cities need to breathe.

During our stay we visited four beautiful gardens: Shinjuku Gyoen National Garden {300 Yen}; Yoyogi Park near Shibuya: Imperial Palace East Gardens (on our tour) Hama-rikyu Gardens- small but attractive landscape garden. The garden was a feudal lord’s residence during the Edo period (17th-19th Century) and is located alongside Tokyo Bay with seawater ponds, which change water level with the tides, former duck hunting grounds, forested areas and the Naka-no-ochaya teahouse.

My favourite was the Shinjuku Gyoen National Garden which is 58.3 hectares in size, and with a circumference of 3.5 km, blend three distinct styles: French Formal, English Landscape and Japanese traditional. The gardens have more than 20,000 trees, including approximately 1,500 cherry trees, the majestic Himalayan cedars, which soar above the rest of the trees in the park, tulip trees, cypresses, and plane trees, which were first planted in Japan in the Imperial Gardens.  We spent a good morning here against the backdrop of a blue sky with balmy 13°C.  

These girls like to shop.

We thought shopping along the Dotomborigawa River in Osaka was mad. The Shibuya district is the fashion capital with a sea of people, wall to wall, swarming around shops like bees to honey. We spent an hour here battling the multitude. How our girls would have been right at home here.  Nakamise Shopping Street in Asakunsa next to the Kannon Temple is another famous cultural landmark in Tokyo. Similar crowds to Shibuya we managed 45 minutes and found some nice souvenirs. Another  treat was to see the girls dressed up in Manga characters at Harajuku. They were a very popular for keen local and overseas photographers.

Oh Food, glorious food.
On second our night we splurged. A visit to the Sky Bar at the 52nd floor of the Park Hyatt in Shinjuku, where they filmed Lost in Translation, had outstanding views of illuminated skyscrapers as far as the eye could see. With sultry jazz in the background we ate at the adjacent restaurant, New York Grill with floor-to-ceiling glass windows offering breathtaking views of Tokyo. The contemporary and sophisticated interior features four large paintings of New York scenes by Italian artist Valerio Adami. The food was superb. Anne had the Shrimp and I had the scallops and later we found out this is a place the ordinary Japanese come perhaps once in a lifetime for a very special celebration. The prices certainly attested to that but you only live once.

Yesterday we went to the world renowned Tsukiji Fish markets to have sushi at the highly recommended Sushizanmai {4,200 Yen}. To see sushi expertly prepared in front of you and then have the sushi melt in your mouth was certainly a culinary experience. Among our favourites on the menu were Red Tuna (raw), Flounder Fin and Sweet Shrimp. Some of these were suggested by a charming couple next to us whom we struck up a conversation with. She was an NGO having worked in East Timor for three years and now she was off to Zambia working for the UN for another two. He was a teacher of political science in a military academy. These vignettes of encounter are one travel’s most precious treasures.

The Sacred and holy

A visit to the revered Meiji Shrine located in Yoyogi Park was again an insight into Japanese Culture in terms of scale and approach to religion. There was a procession of pilgrims, somewhat like the hajji, through three large Tori gates to the shrine where people would throw coins at the collection box due to the crowd to either offer petitions or thanks. I thought this was crowded until I later learned that last week three million people passed through here in three days.

The Asakusa Kannon temple was similarly busy the following day. The explanation from our guide- The Gray Line {3,900 yen each} on the theology of Shinto, the syncrenistc Buddhism and the effect on the life of the adherents was instructional and illuminating. This was part of a Half day tour (9 a.m. to 1.00 p.m.) Talk of the Town which took us through the Imperial Palace- National Diet Building- Tokyo City View at Roppingi Hills- The Asakusa Kannon temple- Tsukiji Fish markets. Much to our surprise and good fortune Anne and I were the only ones on the tour. So imagine to our astonishment that they still ran the tour and we were picked up by our private 50 seater luxury coach. It was also a good opportunity for us to find out more about Japanese culture, religion, politics and its history.  

We head to the airport on the 3.40 p.m. Narita Express for our QF22 8.00 pm flight (to arrive on Tuesday morning 11th January at 7.35 a.m.). Prior to this, and after we check out at 11.00 a.m., we will head to Ueno Onshi Koen Park, which can be translated as ‘Ueno Imperial Gift Park’ and The National Tokyo Museum {600 Yen} which has an excellent "The path of the Buddha' exhibition. This and all our days in Japan have only further imflamed our love affair with the country.

Epilogue

Travel has been a good teacher.

We have been blessed to be able to experience so many new things that have challenged us, enchanted us, humoured us and hopefully taught us that one way is not the only way to see and do things. And in so doing hopefully we became people that are a little more understanding... a little kinder to each other and to others.

The world is becoming a smaller place and has been for some time. Nicole who is 18 has been to 18 countries (Austria, Czech Republic, England, France, Germany, Hungary, Italy, Japan, Lichtenstein, Morocco, Nepal, Netherlands, New Zealand, Spain, Singapore, Switzerland, Thailand and USA). Katie’s is almost the same. When I was her age I had been to one, New Caledonia through soccer, and when my parents where that age they had not travelled.  I still marvel at the possibility that on the same day you can be here in Australia and on the other side of the world.

As our wonderful journey  draws to an end we are thankful to all our families for their well wishes, to Justine and Andrew who have leant us so much of their travel equipment and clothes, and to all of you who have taken the time to read some or all of these blogs. I have enjoyed being able to paint ,with words and at times light, a picture of the world as we saw it. I hope they have given you an insight into us and also to the wonders of travel.

For the last time
Good tidings and God’s blessings
Janika





Friday, January 7, 2011

Japan: A land of intrigue from Kyoto to Hiroshima to Osaka to Koyasan

It was a long, long day.

We awoke at 7 a.m. in order to catch our 12.40 p.m. one hour flight from Wien-Schwechat airport transferring at Munich for two hours and then a sleepless Lufthansa 12 hour flight for Narita airport Tokyo. It was another three hours before we caught the almost three hours and 513 km Hikarta Shinkansen from Tokyo to Kyoto arriving around 5.30 p.m. local time. It would not be until after 10 p.m. that we could call sleep our own- some 31 hours since our last sleep!

This in part was because we had received a message from the girls in Hong Kong ‘Please ring us urgently. If we are out could you please ring again?’ As it transpired the accommodation the girls were booked into looked more like a brothel than a hotel. Feeling unsafe they left. Upon making contact all was well.

Prior to our leaving a walk around the wonderfully lit Mariahilfer Strauss in our brief one night stop over {Wombat Hostel @ €68} gave us a taste of the beauty of Wintery Vienna. The airport bus driver to Vienna airport was in his mid-forties and typified the Slavic nations drive for a better life in Europe. Croatian by birth he swotted for six months to learn Slovenian so he could get better pay there. From there he learnt fluent German to work in Austria and was practising his tenses with us to improve his English. Soon he would be undertaking Spanish although he conceded that would take him a little bit longer as he was not as young as he used to be. This voracious appetite for languages was a reoccurring theme and perhaps a lesson for us in Australia.

Kyoto often referred to as the cultural capital of Japan, with its world heritage listed sites was as I remembered it on my inaugural visit four years ago. Staying at the conveniently located New Miyako Hotel {$AU200/night} adjacent to the magnificent railway station provided the perfect platform for temple visits and restaurants in the area.

I have long admired the Japanese pastime which the blue samurai excel in; queuing.  Queuing for restaurants, trains, buses, trams, shopping, toilets, and temples is assumed and done with a minimum of fuss. Even during the peak period between Dec 27 and January 3 when the Japanese take holidays, in the teeming mass of humanity whether it be in the train stations, temples or shopping centres there was a quite calm, respect for the other and order. Perhaps little wonder as Japan’s population density is around 330 people/sq km compared to Australia’s 3 people / sq km.

Anne and I saw in the New Year at my favourite temple Kiyomizu, perched high on a hill north east of the town centre, beautifully lit and covered with snow. It is another Japanese pastime to welcome in the New Year by visiting a temple. This is a far cry from Times Square or the Harbour Bridge. Ten minutes before midnight the resident elder monk chanted the blessings and began with others to sound the huge bell. Strangely and eerily there was no countdown to the New Year just a faint ripple from the throng as the gonging continued well past the hour. As it was nigh impossible to catch public transport we walked back to our hotel- a good omen for 2011 with an hour of solid exercise underneath our belt.

We christened the first day of 2011 with an afternoon visit by bus (101/205) to the 13th century gold leafed Kinkakujii Temple {500 Yen} better known as the Golden Temple.  It was wall to wall people, clearly very popular with the locals but the temple’s backdrop to the snow covered ponds and gardens was well worth the crush. Later that afternoon Ryoanji Temple, the 15th century Zen rock garden was such a contrast in its simplicity and solitude. The inscription: “Ware tada tauro shiru or Freedom from greed ensures a peaceful life” captured the essence of this serene environment.

Next day we caught the 40 minute train trip to the world heritage listed former capital, Nara, the home to the Good Samaritan Sisters convent and the beautiful Nara Park containing such treasures as Todajii Temple {500 Yen},  the impressive Nandaimon Gate and the Nara welcoming committee: the deer and lots of them. Anne decided not to attempt to go through ‘Buddha’s Nostril’ at the Temple which housed one of the largest Buddha’s in the world.

8.15a.m. August 6th 1945.
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Pope John Paul II on his visit there in 1981 stated that “to remember the past is to commit oneself to the future”. Kenzo Tange, the architect of the Peace Memorial Park, said his design “attempts to combine the art of seeing with the art of praying”.

The world heritage listed Hiroshima Peace Memorial Museum and the adjacent Peace Memorial Park is a testament to the insanity of war and the hopefulness of peace. An entire city was virtually levelled: around 160,000 people lost their lives and almost as many suffered irreparable physical and psychological damage. The United States (President Roosevelt) with the support of the English (Prime Minister Churchill) dropped an Atomic Bomb on Hiroshima then paid millions to help rebuild the city.

On our last full day the Peace Memorial Museum was an emotional experience. Seeing the charred clothes; the remains of those who perished (even finger nails were donated to the museum) and the many stories it is hard not to be moved by such tragedy.  

The day prior to this in the mid afternoon we visited the little known town of Iwakuni, 45 minutes by rail south of Hiroshima. Here was the elegantly formed and elaborate wooden Kintai Bridge. Three main curved wooden arches spanning 35 metres and each interspersed with concrete pillars formed an unusual roller coaster effect. A long slow stroll in the adjacent gardens made for a pleasant afternoon. Earlier on in the day we caught the 20 minute train and five minute ferry to the world heritage listed Miyajima Island. The island is home to the semi submerged Tori shrine (at high tide), Shinto temples and practices, many souvenir shops and also to the redoubtable Miyajima deer. Soon after we disembarked and sat by the waterfront getting our bearings Bambi came up and took a big bite out of my map. He continued to eat the map nonchalantly in front of us despite our quizzical looks.

Our stay in the Sunroute Hotel {$AU80/night} was in a perfect location with views and within walking distance of the Peace Memorial Park. A slow walk through the Park with the many memorials including the hauntingly beautiful Children’s Memorial (Sadako Sasaki and the thousand paper cranes) and the A Bomb dome   (a building severely damaged but not destroyed with its dome somewhat intact and later becoming a symbol of Hiroshima conveying the horror of nuclear weapons and the appeal for peace) was a fitting introduction into the city. Later that afternoon we strolled around the perimeter of Hiroshima Castle and spent considerably more time at the tranquil Shukkeien Gardens literally meaning ‘shrink-scenic garden’. Construction of this garden began in 1620 with the idea of collecting and miniaturising many scenic views modeled on Chinese tradition. Like many sites here the garden was destroyed in 1945 by the atomic bomb and restoration began in the early 50’s.

There is a strange paradox that stares you in the face when you walk the streets here. Trams that are called ‘Streetcars’ and the proliferation of McDonalds, Baseball all echo an Americanization of culture more apparent here than in other parts of the country. 

Just before we left Hiroshima on the 9.15 a.m. Shinkansen bound for Shin Osaka (arriving 10.44) on the fifth day into the New Year  we were thrilled to hear that the girls had arrived home safely and that George was purring. Many thanks too Margie for picking them up from the airport and driving them home. After finding two lockers {600 Yen/locker/day} to store most of our luggage we made our way by subway {240 Yen/person} to Namba Station located in the Osaka precinct before the trip to Koyasan. Prior to this in Shin Osaka we picked up a bargain suitcase for 10,000 Yen.

I had wanted to show Anne the shopping Mecca in Osaka. The Ebisu and Shinsaibashi-suji shopping street near the Dotomborigawa River is a honey pot for young Gen Y girls and their obsequious partners. After about an hour and a half of what felt like the ebb and flow of a tide of humanity Anne had had enough.

The pretty 90 minute train trip up into the world heritage listed Koyasan Mountains was such a contrast to the fast paced and bright lights of Osaka. {Nankai line-Limited Express, Namba to Gokurakubashi Stn then a cable car to Koyasan Stn, - not covered by our JR Pass at 1990 Yen/person}. A further 20 minute bus trip {340 Yen/person} and a short walk in the late afternoon and we were there at Ekoin {20,000 Yen/ person including all breakfasts and dinners} for our two night ‘shukubo’ or temple stay.  

Koyasan is home to an active monastic centre with over 50 temples that provide ‘shukubo’. It was founded 1200 years ago by the priest known as Kobo Daishi (Kukai) for the practice of Esoteric (Shingon) Buddhism. Set in a beautiful cedar forest, 900 metres above sea level and today covered in snow, the area known as Okuuno-in or Inner Sanctuary is the backdrop for a vast cemetery that features the mausoleum of Kukai. Interestingly followers of Shingon believe Kukai is not dead but meditating in his tomb.

The monks, heads shaved and dressed traditionally in identical blue yakutas; were courteous and the service is reminiscent of a ‘ryokan’, or traditional Japanese hotel. Our room was clean and quiet. The furnishings were sparse with just a low table which had under table heating with some cushions on the floor, a kerosene radiator, and strangely a TV (which we did not use). The rice paper sliding doors opened up onto the snow covered courtyard. Very tranquil indeed.

The Koyasan temples are famous for their gourmet vegetarian cuisine, known as ‘shojin-ryori.’ The food was generous, and served in our room at 5.30 p.m., and was, naturally, entirely vegetarian. A part of the main meal which was soba in soup, tempura, with rice and assorted fresh and pickled vegetables washed down with ‘kikucha’ tea was delicious. I was not so sure of the sesame tofu and the bowl of the famous Koyadofu, a ‘gammo doki’ (a kind of disk of fried tofu with gin nuts). Dessert was mysterious sweet vegetable roots that we'd never seen before and a mandarin. We liked the mandarin!

After dinner the monks removed the trays and made our beds on the tatami mats which consisted of a rice pillow, doona and a sponge mattress.

Anne and I had a soak, separately, in the temple's beautiful black granite ‘ofuro’ or communal bathtub around 7p.m.  Fortunately for the temple no one else was in the male communal bath at this time. It was seriously hot and I could only stay half submerged for a few minutes. (Enough details don’t you think?)

Off to sleep just after 8.30 p.m. and I awoke at 2 a.m. “Is it morning?” Tossing and turning with intermittent sleep we awoke just before 7a.m as the monk knocked on our door and led the four of us hardy souls to the temple's main hall, where the morning's main service was held. The monk chanted sutras from a venerable scroll, accompanied by cymbals. In the hall row upon row of sutra containers glowed in the dim candlelight. Later we moved to a smaller shrine, where two monks performed a ritual in which they built a fire, and one read prayers for health and prosperity from petitioners to Kukai and the other accompanied him on a ‘wadaiko’ or drum.

Breakfast greeted us just before 8 a.m. with of miso soup, ‘sansai’ or mountain vegetables, more gammo doki, rice, fried tofu and tea.

On a chilly, heavily snowing -3°C mid morning we walked to the huge Kongobuji Temple which is the headquarters of Shingon Buddhism in Japan, and contains administrative offices for the 3,600 or so Shingon temples in Japan. The temple's Banryutei rock garden is the largest in Japan (2,349 square meters) with its 140 pieces of granite arranged to resemble a pair of dragons emerging from a sea of clouds to protect the temple.

From here we were off to a magnificent 25 m high structure  called The Daimon, or Great Gate, at the west end of town. Looking like a Tori shrine, two fiercely glaring guardian deities flank both its sides and provide a majestic entrance to magnificent views of the mountains.

We had lunch in the town centre about a kilometre away and then headed back to the Monastery. Anne decided to enjoy some ‘me time’ while in the late afternoon, in a blanket of snow, I took a stroll through the cemetery.  The two kilometre avenue was flanked by tombs and towering cedar trees hundreds of years old where the stillness was only broken by the occasional pilgrim or the snow falling on cedars. In the fullness of Winter I was getting a glimpse of what brought Kukai to this sacred place.

There are an estimated half million tombs in the Koyasan precinct, the oldest dating back to the 9th century.  Okunoin, the main cemetery, has over 200,000. The biggest and most important of course is that of Kukai himself, at the end of the avenue of the vast necropolis.  The Okunoin Gobyo is a mausoleum and was erected by his disciples. Adjacent to this was the amazing Torodo or the Lantern Temple, in front of the Gobyo, which houses thousands of lamps, several of which have been burning for nearly a thousand years.

Not surprisingly, this is the most desirable cemetery in the country. The pole shaped tombs symbolise the departed waiting for the return of the Lord Buddha. The newer section has more modern designs. There are a lot of corporate tombs in this area, including Nissan, Toyota and Kirin Beer.  Upon my return after a quick nap and dinner Anne and I treated ourselves to another communal bath, this time in the company of strangers.
 
Cuisines have their own way of unlocking cultural nuances. It has been quite noticeable how the menus and hence our eating habits have changed as we have moved around the country. Ramen delighted our pallets in Kyoto while in Hiroshima it was Okonomiyaki (a savoury pancake with cabbage, meats and eggs) cooked before us on a hot plate that made us come back for more in Okonomi village. In the monastery in Koyasan it was the vegetarian miso soup, ‘sansai’ or mountain vegetables, gammo doki and fried tofu that challenged our gastronomical senses while in Osaka it was the rice omelette's that were popular.

After another night of intermittent sleep, stiff backs, cricked necks but a great experience, we said goodbye to Koyasan in the early morning (7.30 a.m.) with the snow still pressing hard against the buildings and caught the bus back to the station {340 Yen} then the 5 minute cable car and 100 minute train trip back to Osaka with the Nankai Express {1230 Yen}. At Shin Osaka we retrieved our luggage from the lockers, had a brief breakfast and caught the 11.40 a.m. Shinkansen bound for Shinawaga (5 minutes from Tokyo)  arriving at 2.35 p.m. where we could connect with a local train to the hip Shinjuku district in central Tokyo where our hotel was located.

We were on the homeward stretch and important questions came to mind. Had the girls remembered George’s birthday on the 6th January? If so, had they brought him a present? It is not every day a cat is five years old. We also thought how much ‘Uncle Tom’ and Anne’s dad; Denis would have enjoyed the Shinkansen which are clean, highly efficient and very quiet.  At the end of the carriage each time a railway personal passes through they would turn, pause and bow to the people in the carriage. There were respective carriages marked ‘Silent carriages’ where the food trolley girls would whisper, mobile phones were asked to be put on silent and calls taken only outside the main part of the carriage. Sounds civilized doesn’t it?

Until next time, for the last time

Good tidings and God’s blessings
Janika



[1] Days since the Atomic Bomb was dropped on Hiroshima as of 7th January 2010
[2] Days since the last Nuclear Tests ( USA Sept 2010)  as of 7th January 2010 

Sunday, January 2, 2011

The Mercurial Magyars

Time stood still as still waters run deep.

This is the fourth time I have visited the land of my mothers and fathers birth: 1980; 1998; 2003 and now in December 2010.

My family were greeted with the glow of the late afternoon sunshine, a single rose for each of us (so Hungarian and so thoughtful), a warm 10°C and Pisti, mum’s brother, and his wife Ili, Ersze, one of mum’s sisters, and her son Szabi at Gyor (population of 130,000) railway station in north western Hungary some 120 km from Vienna. Gyor is where Ersze and Szabi and his partner Jannette live while Pisti and Ili live in a beautiful village Raba Szentmihalyi (St Michaels on the Raba River) 25 minutes from Gyor.

We all went back to Ersze’s apartment and enjoyed the first of many Hungarian delicacies and later settled down to a lovely traditional dinner. Jannette, such a delightful person and well loved by the girls, joined us after work and it was a chance for all of us to catch our breath and catch up and enjoy each other’s company especially Szabi’s light hearted banter. Ersze had generously given up her bed and much of her apartment so we could stay the night; it was very much appreciated and we were tired and off to bed around 10.30 p.m.

A late rise and after the first of many filling breakfasts we were joined by Pisti and Ili. The eight of us had a slow walk around the city taking in many of the sights: such as the Christmas markets and a taste of Hungarian forro bor or hot wine; the Town Hall; parts of the Old Town; a five metre in diameter Advent Wreath and the correspondingly large was lit each Sunday of the season; Bethlehem Crib; Cathedral (where Pisti and ili were married 37 years ago); The banks of the Raba and of course the statue of a naked man and his csonak or boat with a somewhat large...oar (It is Ili’s favourite so in her honour I take a photo every time we meet).

Lunch at an etterem or restaurant mid afternoon reaffirmed by memory of Hungarian cuisine: very good quality and lots of it, and I mean lots of it. The girls and I admirably finished the schnitzel that not only covered the plate but also half the table! Eating in Hungary is always a pleasure of the senses.

Under the weight of our lunch we ambled, no crawled back to Ersze’s and then went to Raba Szentmihalyi where we were to stay for the next four days before heading back home via Vienna and Japan. Driving into the 800 year old village, the birth of my mother, and her father and her brothers and sisters filled me with such joy.

Raba Szentmihalyi, on the banks of the Raba River, is a small village of 543 people with a beautiful 300 year old church and is filled with many rich memories from my previous three visits as well as the countless stories that filled my head from my childhood from my mum.  

There is such a spirit of hospitality and connectedness here. Deep roots find their expression in the simplicity of the spoken word; a gesture; a homemade meal prepared with love and all home-grown ingredients washed down with convivial conversation and palinka and more palinka and age old piros bor or red wine. 

We settled into Pistil’s and Ili’s, reacquainted ourselves with the home and its refurbishments since our last visit and met Rex Baci, their 12 year old lovable dog. A scrumptious dinner followed and the conversation flowed amidst the eleg koszonom or enough thank you and hogy vagy? Or how are you? After the girls and Ili went to bed Pisti and I indulged in a panoramic discussion on Hungary’s past and present such as: The Treaty of Trianon; Soviet occupation; the displaced Magyars in Romania; EU; Dual Citizenship: Viktor Orban and Hungarian politics and 2000 Olympics.

A lazy and restful Christmas Eve morning greeted us with more palinka and reggeli or breakfast with lots of smoked meats, cheeses, fresh bread and cooked eggs. As my waistline expanded so did my appreciation of Pisti and Ili’s hospitality, in particular we were spoilt by Ili’s cooking which was nothing short of superb.

Mid morning through Skype I was able to reconnect with my family. It was the first time in my 50 years that I was not present at our family’s most significant celebration, yet I was home.  

In the afternoon my whole family visited the village’s cemetery and paid our respects to past members of mum’s immediate family who had so much shaped her life and Pisti’s. A brief visit to visit Olga neni’s, the widow of my late uncle Karcsi Baci and to Monci neni, Ili’s sprightly 87 year old mum (I can see where Ili gets her dry sense of humour from) and we were off to 7 p.m Christmas Eve Mass.

Hearing the rhythm of the Mass in Hungarian was an unforgettable experience even if it was considerably colder inside the church the outside. Some forro bor and some carols in the villages centre and we were truly immersed in the authentic Hungarian spirit of the festive season.

Prior to Mass, kis Jezus or little Jesus came with presents. It was an enduring theme that emphasised the heart of this area; not once did I hear the word Santa Claus or its equivalent but the Christmas season was draped in a proudly worn faith that permeated one’s consciousness.

Christmas Day was just that: peaceful, quite, relaxed with a little morning snow which did not settle as our thoughts turned to Anne’s family.

In Hungary one’s nevnap or name day is celebrated much more than one’s birthday.

December 26th was Pisti’s name day. My family practised in Hungarian so in the morning they could say; “Yo reggel Pisti. Boldog nevnap kivanuk” Translated, “Good morning Pisti. I wish you a happy name day”. As it turned out Anne beat Ili to this greeting!

Katie and I had a mid morning walk with Pisti around the village in close to -10°C (wind chill). Raba Szentmihalyi is such a pretty village. Each time I am here I feel such a deep sense of peace and I have an unquenching yearning to buy a small home.

Early afternoon and into the evening some of my cousins and their families drove up from Szekesfehervar, (The Kings white castle) 63 km SW of Budapest and the town of my father’s birth. It was such a wonderful afternoon that went too quickly.

In this picture postcard afternoon there was: my cousin Imi, fast talking, friendly and engaging; his wife Erika filled with wisdom and their two beautiful children; Andras who is studying law is an impressive young man- erudite, articulate, fluent in both Hungarian and English and above all humble; Dori, who is delightful, pretty, insightful and just finishing school and is learning to speak to different degrees four languages.

It was so good to see them and my other cousin Ibolya, and her delightful husband Karez, or St Charles as I called him as he knew how to party, and their articulate and confident daughter Sophie. Anne enjoyed chatting with both Sophie and Andras and as the alcohol flowed, and the cacophony of laughter and raucous conversation rose to a crescendo my family reflected on my sense of connectedness which I never had in Australia. I was like a pig in mud.

The following morning the Muskovits’ and Pisti went for a walk around the Raba and parts of the village. As we walked I could see my family with each breath breathe in a little more of my heritage. It was nice to see.

Lunch with family and we were off.

Time marches on.

Still as we said our farewells on the Gyor platform I had sense that I would be back again, perhaps one day in May and hopefully for a lot longer. I am indebted to all who made my families stay so memorable and I look to the day where perhaps I will be able to repay their kindness in Australia.

From the homeland
Until next time
Good tidings and God’s blessings
Janika